Relationships

You Have Two Suitors But Only One Heart: How Do You Make Up Your Mind?

 blackandmarriedwithkids.com  Having too many men to choose from is a good problem to have. But how do you choose between the two if they’re equally awesome (and you like them both)?  Here are 5 questions to ask yourself before you make a final decision.

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Having too many men to choose from is a good problem to have. But how do you choose between the two if they’re equally awesome (and you like them both)?  Here are 5 questions to ask yourself before you make a final decision.


Single and Unattached? 5 Reasons Dating One Man at a Time Could Be a Big Mistake

 blackandmarriedwithkids.com  If you’re the kind of sister who likes to date one man at a time because you’re afraid of looking thirsty or desperate, I’ve got to warn you: you are wasting your time! Here are 5 reasons why.

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If you’re the kind of sister who likes to date one man at a time because you’re afraid of looking thirsty or desperate, I’ve got to warn you: you are wasting your time! Here are 5 reasons why.


5 Tips to Upgrade Your Flirting Game and Snag a Man With Swag

 blackandmarriedwithkids.com  Do you know how to be so magnetic with men that they melt in your presence and relentlessly pursue you without you ever looking desperate or thirsty? If the answer is no, then it’s time for you to upgrade your flirting game.

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Do you know how to be so magnetic with men that they melt in your presence and relentlessly pursue you without you ever looking desperate or thirsty? If the answer is no, then it’s time for you to upgrade your flirting game.


3 Powerful Relationship Lessons From ‘Black Panther’ That Can Transform Black Love (Spoiler Alert)

 blackandmarriedwithkids.com   Black  Panther  is powerful not just because we get to see an African king in a bulletproof suit change our conception of who gets to be a hero, but also because it paints a picture of what’s possible in the relationships between Black women and Black men.

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BlackPanther is powerful not just because we get to see an African king in a bulletproof suit change our conception of who gets to be a hero, but also because it paints a picture of what’s possible in the relationships between Black women and Black men.


The Idris Elba Syndrome: Can the Right Woman Change a Man’s Mind About Marriage?

 If you were on a first date and the successful, swagalicious man you met on Soul Swipe said,   “ Am I ever gonna get remarried? I don’t think so. Yeah, I don’t think so. Marriage is an institution of sorts and I’ve done it. It’s not for everybody. It’s not my life’s calling,”   what would you do?

If you were on a first date and the successful, swagalicious man you met on Soul Swipe said,  “Am I ever gonna get remarried? I don’t think so. Yeah, I don’t think so. Marriage is an institution of sorts and I’ve done it. It’s not for everybody. It’s not my life’s calling,” what would you do?


6 Behaviors to Avoid When Dealing With Conflict in Your Marriage

 blackandmarriedwithkids.com  When someone pisses you off, it’s normal for your instincts to kick in and cause you to become defensive and argumentative. But having effective conflict management tools under your belt equips you for the inevitable.

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When someone pisses you off, it’s normal for your instincts to kick in and cause you to become defensive and argumentative. But having effective conflict management tools under your belt equips you for the inevitable.


Should You Swipe Left or Swipe Right? Getting Clear on Your Deal Breakers

 blackandmarriedwithkids.com  I know it’s frustrating when the men you want don’t show up in your dating app and this keeps happening. I can tell you how to solve this problem–if you’re open and ready to turn things around in your favor – forever.

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I know it’s frustrating when the men you want don’t show up in your dating app and this keeps happening. I can tell you how to solve this problem–if you’re open and ready to turn things around in your favor – forever.


Truth Bomb: The “Spirit of Girlfriend” Isn’t The Reason Why You’re Still Single

 blackandmarriedwithkids.com  As a dating coach, relationship expert for successful, smart sisters (and a happily married woman of 11 years), I’d like to drop a truth bomb about why you’re still single that has nothing to do with Pastor John Gray’s “spirit of girlfriend”

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As a dating coach, relationship expert for successful, smart sisters (and a happily married woman of 11 years), I’d like to drop a truth bomb about why you’re still single that has nothing to do with Pastor John Gray’s “spirit of girlfriend”